Look, I tell this to my kids whenever there is a suicide that is publicized -- tomorrow is another day. There is nothing in a relationship or an embarrassment or whatever that is worth killing yourself over.
So you think your NBA player boyfriend is dumping you or treating you poorly or whatever - move along. You are 29. Tomorrow the sun will come up and he will not be around, but you know what? You can live another 70 years. During that period of time, you will have a lot of great and happy times. Why give all of that away and hurt everyone who loves you so much and wants things to go well for you?
Awful. Just awful.